Just wondering people's experiences. If you met someone and got pregnant by them within a short time or right away, what was the outcome? DH and I got pregnant after dating 2 months. I got pregnant by my daughter's sperm donor after 2 months of dating. We decided to really try and give the relationship a shot but in the end he just wasn't ready to be a father. So needless to say we ended it a very long time ago and and he basically disappeared.
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This isn't exactly the same but I was pregnant when I met SO and we are still together 1 and a half years later and expecting another baby. I was 3 months pregnant when we met. He knew I was pregnant and has taken on the "daddy" role and has since little man was born. I had been with my man for 3 weeks when I got pregnant! We have been together 16 years and 6 kids now! It depends on the people. But it will be worth it. I sent the same text to my boyfriend lol we've been together 3 months before I found out he said it doesn't sound good what's up I texted I didn't want to tell him over the phone but he called anyways lol I just told him but he was happier than I was so it all worked out he's actually more supportive and loving than he was before which is great.
I understand exactly how u feel I had decided to terminate and he said he would support me in whatever decision I made. I have so much respect for the way he handled the news. I hope that ur bf will stand up and be supportive of whatever u decide I got pregnant with my son less than a month after dating his sperm donor The day I found out I told him. I told him that I'd give him time to figure out what he wanted to do but I wouldn't wait forever either. My son just turned a year old on monday and his biological father has had nothing to do with him.
I wouldn't tell him over the phone or a text or fb or anything but face to face. Its scarey but being up front is the best way. From what you said he's an amazing guy and I hope he stands up and takes responsibility for the baby. I wish you the best of luck but also prepare yourself that he might be scared at first and stand offish about it. Give him some time but also be firm about what you want!
Good Luck and keep us updated. Like a PP said: If you're in a relationship, you talk to them. If it's any consolation I'd only been dating my bf for a month when I got pregnant. I didn't find out till I was 3 months, so I counted back the weeks and figured it out. I had a feeling I was so I took a test he bought and called him while he was going to work.
He was very shocked at first, but now he can never stop rubbing my tummy, it's so cute. If he takes it half as well as my bf did u should do just fine. Archived Discussion This discussion is archived and locked for posting See active discussions on Relationships. I just wanted to get some tips from guys who may have been or even known someone in my situation, My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 3 months and I just found out that I'm pregnant.
Going by the "conception calculator" I am 6 weeks pregnant. My boyfriend is an amazing guy We both have a lot going for us I'm starting grad school in January and he is training to play basketball overseas. This news will change alot for the both of us. I'm afraid of this entire situation So I guess Im asking for advice on how to break this news to him and how to be understanding if he needs his space to take it all in? How do I get past this step when Im so afraid to even bring this up to him?
Any advice would help Oldest Newest 18 Posts. Pregnancy Due Dates Find important information and fun facts about your pregnancy due date. She played fast and loose with her BC, then blamed the baby daddy for getting her pregnant. Found out he had a weird custody arrangement with his ex and his stepdaughter hated her. Broke up and child support became an issue. I'm the product of my parents only knowing each other for 5 months before they found out my mom was pregnant with me. Shotgun wedding a month later had 4 more kids stayed married for 18 years divorced now for 10 and cant stand to speak to each other.
They definitely should not have gotten married but cant imagine my life without my siblings. Not me but a relative of mine- she and her boyfriend of 4 months got pregnant. Their gorgeous daughter is 2, and they seem to have an incredibly loving and healthy relationship. Even though I was on the pill, I found myself pregnant one month after meeting someone on a blind date. My parents got married after 7 weeks, my grandparents after 5 weeks. Neither one was due to pregnancy though, and they're still together. They are definitely atypical of that kind of whirlwind romance. Orthodox jews usually go on a couple dates and figure out pretty quickly if they'll get married or not.
I knew a woman who got engaged after four weeks to her husband. They have more than 10 kids and as far as I know, they are both happy! My parents got pregnant with me three months into dating married after 3. Had a friend of mine knock up some chick at a party at university. She had to drop out, his classes suffered as he tried to work and complete his studies at the same time. They managed to marry after graduation, things were going great, he found a decent job and things were finally financially stable. Then they try for a second child.
She gets pregnant almost right away. They decide that two are enough, and he goes to the Doc to have his tubes tied. Starts dating girl, despite our warnings that she has a history of emotional and physical abuse towards her partners. Moved in with girl, despite our warnings that it was too soon and that they didnt' know each other well enough. Finds out girl is pregnant, despite our warnings that she had been obsessing about wanting his child for a month.
Despite ALL of us telling him to use protection. He believed her when she stated that she "wasn't ovulating" and therefore had "zero chance of getting pregnant". Flies with girl out of state to tell her parents, announces on social media. We all think he's actually going to step up. Breaks up with her over text, flees their shared apartment, forces a mutual friend who was mourning the death of a grandparent to go check on this girl who has a history of suicide attempts. Refuses contact with her when she is at highest suicide risk, with his unborn child still in 1st trimester.
Orders a police escort to accompany him to get his things from her house, conning his friends into thinking that she was physically dangerous. She's posting video on video on Facebook confused and sobbing. She's a barista, has multiple untreated mental health disorders, and is hopped up on pregnancy hormones. She moves to live with her parents. Tells him not to follow her, that she's fine with him living in the same state or even a city nearby, but not in the same city as her. He states that he's intending on moving to the same city as her "because it's what's best for the baby".
He states that it's "too steep" and that he'll "buy her some diapers instead" She has also started dating someone. My friends and I have started taking bets on where this dude is going to be when baby is born. She and new guy are engaged. Baby-daddy asks to speak with fiance. Instead of assessing what kind of person will be rearing his child, he chooses this moment to try to "warn him" about how dangerous she is. This is the most stable any of her friends have ever seen her be. Baby is born and is most definitely his.
Since she and new-guy are married, by state law, new-guy assumes paternity rights if he signs the birth certificate which he does. Baby-daddy is on a "soul-searching" road-trip giving bogus life advice to his Insta followers. Baby-daddy has still not acknowledged the birth of his child. The kid is 11 weeks old.
He claims not to understand why all of his friends bailed on him, even though we have laid it out plainly and explicitly for him.
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Why is it that in my mind I read this like Joe Friday from Dragnet giving the narrative of an investigation? Got together late October. Found out she was pregnant January 1st. Have a 3 month old little perfect girl now as a part of our blended family with 4 kids total. Things are amazing though and I couldn't be happier. My friend has a wonderful, smart four year old girl and the father's family takes her two nights a week.
The parents are cordial, though not particularly close, and both families love and want what's best for the little girl. It was touch and go leading up to the delivery, but the father decided to be involved after a paternity test. She decided that she would have an abortion. I was more than OK with that but would have let her choose anyway. Well, we're married now and I'm 6 months pregnant. It's working out really well so far, even though the fact that I'm pregnant has added a lot of stress onto our lives and our relationship.
Met in December, married in April, pregnant in June. Still married six years later with a little girl. Predictably - we were dating basically binge drinking and hooking up for a few months when I got pregnant, we tried staying together, moved in together, had a baby, got married, were married for maybe 2 years and then divorced. The relationship was never right but it just fell apart after awhile.
The final kicker was when we tried to have a second child and I miscarried and he was not supportive, started staying out all the time, almost certainly cheating. On a good note, he turned out to be a person I don't like at all but he's been a good dad and I'm grateful for that.
Wife said he cheated, lied and left and is still a huge fucking douche. I can vouch for that, he barely comes around for their 11 year old. Dudes missing out on a great kid. Met someone, she got pregnant within the first month of dating. I was afraid of all and terrified to be a father but at the end I accepted my fate, she decided to keep it but as soon as the pregnancy exam came positive she changed her mind.
I was more than okay with the decision until later. After taking the abortion pills, turns out she was still pregnant. After a month we realized the baby was not alive, paid for her "cleaning process" don't know correct term at a hospital to take the dead remains out. After that she decided she wanted to cut all communication with me even though she knows i was supportive and willing to stay with her through all until the very end.
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Got blocked from everything. I'm just offering some perspective from the other side. Absolutely, my pain and regret is huge and even though I know I did my best to keep her safe, and helping her through the process I keep on blaming myself. Pregnant 4 months into dating.
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He was an abuse asshole. Continued well after we left him. Took him to court a few times. Moved out of town to get away after they refused to do anything about anything. He did it to another girl. Haven't heard from him or his family in a year and it has been lovely. When i was 25 I met a guy. I was completely in awe of him. He was full of potential, great with my daughter, working hard and getting places in his life. I was pregnant two weeks later. November was a cold month Fast forward to today. We have been married for almost five years and our son just turned four in August.
He stayed home when i went back to college and he has always been supportive of my in every way. I'm extremely lucky that he came into my life. I wasn't headed down a good path and he helped me find my way. Got my girlfriend at the time, pregnant after 5 months of dating. Married a few months after that. It hasn't been anything close to easy. We've fought, fell apart and almost haven't made it. At the end of the day, I wouldn't have taken this journey with anyone else. Or I can't imagine anyone else in her shoes.
It's tough, but what relationship isn't? My mom and dad knew each other for 3 months before he got her pregnant. My dad asked her to marry him in order to make both sets of my religious grandparents happy and not let them know I was a bastard. They got married and 4 years later had my little brother. After 6 years of marriage my mom found out my dad had a secret baby mama He already had 1 other baby mama that had 3 of his kids and that he only broke it with cuz he was about to marry my mom and that he was still cheating on her.
In rage my mom revenge cheated on my dad and got pregnant with that man. They are both remarried with people that dont make them assholes. We got pregnant 3 months in. I was 25 and he was As my mom interjected her 2 cents in went through all the options, including abortion he put his foot down thinking it was against him and said that it was His baby and whether or not I was there in the end it would be the three of us or just the two of them. His stance and love for our baby made me love him more.
So here we sit with two surprise kids and two more we planned in our beautiful home with our three pups and 12 years together and almost 10 years of marriage. He bought a car in cash for me just before we moved to the Midwest, left it at his moms before we moved and then he closed on our first home when we got here.
He knew this girl for like 2 months and on the first night they had sex she ended up pregnant. They would fight so much at first but now their daughter is about to turn 4 they are genuinely in love with each other, married, and a baby on the way. So it worked out well for us. Almost two years since meeting, we were married within 3 months and expecting within 4. Cheesy as it sounds my love for him grows everyday, especially seeing his bond with our son.
I got pregnant 9 months after getting together with my partner. We'll be celebrating our 17 year anniversary next February. I met my baby's father in rehab, I didn't even like him, but he was cute and I was bored. I got pregnant the third time we had sex, which was in the treatment center van that we were supposed to be cleaning. After the rehab kicked us out for having sex he went to jail for the probation violation for getting kicked out for basically my entire pregnancy.
I stayed sober and he didn't and we have forged a weird friendship, but he wants more and I don't so it's awkward for us. He now has a girlfriend who refuses to leave me and him together unsupervised due to all the weird and thirsty shit he does. I was pregnant within 3 months. We were both a mess. My mum had just passed and I was making stupid decisions left, right and centre.
I genuinely felt like it was love at first sight for both of us, it was a whirlwind of love, fun and lots of alcohol. We just clicked and everything moved so fast. From there things have only improved. We have had some serious ups and downs and made some big mistakes along the way. But here we are and I do love him very much. And he does me. I think we might make it til death do us part. I was 20, he was 21 and neither of us were prepared to have a child. Our parents, or at least mine, were no help. He was a partier and went out most nights after our son was born. I ended up with horrible post partum.
I eventually went on medication and started therapy, but by then we were finished. I sent our son to live with my parents and only got custody of him a couple of years ago when he turned His father is barely in the picture, as he prefers. He has full access, he just chooses to not be around.
Which I find heartbreaking, but at least I have an amazing, talented 15 year old whom I adore. So I met a women when I was down on my luck in life. She seemed absolutely amazing but there was always that itch in the back of my brain that I couldn't scratch that something was wrong. It was a goddamned nightmare of epic proportions. I would not wish that experience on my worst enemy. Was really fun to find out how laws work in this case. Since she was pregnant during her marriage with paternity in question my son was legally her husbands.
Got the test done and he was mine. Then I have to do backflips to prove to the state that I am a competent person who cant break a child in half. Had to prove I wasnt on drugs. Had to take classes. All the while she did a quick settlement with the ex husband where he got shit in his favor. Took two fucking years. Our story is definitely one in a million. We ended up keeping the baby and moving in together, because why not at that point? Got a puppy 3 months later, bought a house 6 months later, had our daughter 3 months after that.
Sold said house 3 months after having our daughter, moved across the country for a new job. I quit mine to stay home with the baby. We got married in September, when our daughter was 9 months old. We met in early and in October of that year, I was out of town and came back looking for her.
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Her neighbors said she was taken to the hospital because she had a kid. I didn't even know she was pregnant!!! Well, she claimed that she was at home and felt that she had to use the bathroom and next thing she knows she is giving birth. Mind you, I saw her almost daily and never noticed she was pregnant. She said she didn't know either, despite this being her fourth kid all from a prior relationship. So, she says that the kid is mine, etc.
But, I'm adding up months and if it was mine, I would have had to got her pregnant right away. But, I remember not being able to nut the first time. She says the kid was a preemie. Yet, the kid had normal weight. Most around me are saying, be responsible and be the father etc. So, I give in and we find a place together. But, I never really felt in love with her. The baby didn't seem like it was mine either.
As things go, I realized that I couldn't stay with her. I just didn't see this continuing. So we separate and work out child support, etc.
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It's around at this time. I just couldn't get past my thoughts that this wasn't my kid. DNA was a bit cheaper and I decide to get the test. This was procured on my own using cheek swabs. The mom wouldn't consent to a test. Of course we know why. So, I tell the ex the results and tell her I'm not going to pay anymore support.
She gets defensive and says I'm a deadbeat. So, I tell her I will take as many tests as she needs but I'm not paying for the tests. She declined and refused. So she says that unless I pay, no visitation. In my immaturity, I say "fine". I saw the kid here and there but it faded away. The kids grown now and we stay in touch.
But, something is missing. I regret what happened. I shouldn't have gotten the test and I should have fought to stay in the kids life. I feel genuine sorrow for the kid. Split up, she had a baby I didn't know I was the father , I got custody at age 8. He's 21 now and doin' fine. Not me but a former friend knocked Up a 15 year old when he was 18, luckily they could abort it, and they're No longer together. My friend and her husband, moved in together after dating a month, engaged after 3, pregnant by 6, just got married on their 1 year anniversary.
Baby is due in a few months so we will see. I had a miscarriage, which, in all reality, was the best possible outcome. I was 19 and not at all ready for a child. It worked out for the best.